Thanksgiving…In or Out?

A couple of years ago I hosted an “Orphans Thanksgiving” for about twelve friends who had nowhere to go for the holiday. This was my table. I really loved it:

Last year the hubs and I ate way too much during a fabulous dinner at Bacchanal Buffet in Caesars Palace. We also said our first “I Love You.”
This year we’re debating between going out to one of the places having a prix fixe meal option here in San Diego or cooking at home. It will be just the two of us.  
What are YOU doing for Thanksgiving? And what should *I* do? Cook or go out and let someone else do the cleaning? 
I’d love to read your plans and opinions!